silentdancer

This is a new journal that's private and unknown to my real-life friends. However, I've been on IJ since 2004. Feel free to add me, but be aware that sometimes I'm not as good as I appear.


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if you want to add me, please comment with this:
You can call me.... I found you through... My favorite color is... My least favorite color is... The story behind my username is... Anything else to add...

You can call me: Emmy or Dreamer.
My favorite color is purple.
My least favorite color is olive green.
The story behind my username is that I'm very much a silent person and I love to dance.

Use this post if:

• I am not online.
  
• My most real-time open post says "On Hiatus"
  
• I have not commented on a pick-up or rp thread in a week(it's likely IJ ate the comments)
  

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Castlevania: Dawn of Sorrow
Harvest Moon DS
Harvest Moon: More Friends Of Mineral Town
Megaman ZX Advent
Final Fantasy V Advance
Golden Sun
Phoenix Wright: Trials & Tribulations

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start February 9, 2009
end November 7, 2011
( Mission 101 )

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Well, I'm probably offensive to you if:

• You think you're "normal"--whatever that is.
  
• You're homophobic or transphobic - I'm a pansexual/bisexual/multi-gendered person and very supportive of those lifestyles.
  
• You don't like hearing people bitching about everything and anything, including but not limited to relationship drama, school drama, mental health drama, actism drama. This is my journal, I'm gonna bitch if I want to. It's my safe-space.
  
• You're anti-gamer. I'm a gamer. Mostly casual, but eh... the randomness comes and goes.
  
• You're anti-furry. I'm one, deal with it.
  
• You're anti-soulbonding, anti-fictionkin, anti-otherkin, or anti-functioning multiplicity. I'm one of each and I say fuck that.
  
• Adult language bugs you. I have an attitude and I'm not afraid to use it.
  
• You hate roleplayers. Again, I am one.
  
• You hate fangirls. Again, I am one.
  
• You hate online memes and emoticons. I overuse both to no end.
  
• You are a very biased Fundamentalist Christian who proselytizes and won't agree to disagree with my beliefs. I'm Unitarian Universalist with a focus on religious syncretism, primarily in the eclectic pagan/eclectic wiccan side of things.
  
• You hate people who live vicariously through the internet.
  

Randomly found through browsing LJ, originally written by baaing_tree

Welcome to Plurality!

Dear (insert name here),

So you have discovered you are a multiple/soulbonder/plural/median/otherwise renting out your mental real estate! Congratulations! Have a complimentary winged toaster! We are very glad to have you join our ranks. Having voices in your head, you see, is a bit of a difficult past-time to discuss with others, so the more like us, the better! Remember, it is only a mental disease if you are unhappy or not functioning.

Before you start your stay with us, we would like to state some basic rules of thumb, the better for your peace of mind and ours. We likes us some open-mindedness, yup.

• You have a formal diagnosis. Congratulations! You are still just as real and "legit" as those that don't.
  
• You have never seen a shrink in your life. Congratulations! You are still just as real and crazy to outsiders as those that have.
  
• You are trauma-based. Congratulations! That doesn't mean you can't be real or functional.
  
• You are natural. Congratulations! That doesn't mean you can't be real or dysfunctional.
  
• You are a walk-in. Congratulations! You are as real as any other voice in someone's head.
  
• You are a soulbond. Congratulations! Same as above.
  
• You are insourced. Congratulations! You're just as cool as outsourced.
  
• You are outsourced. Congratulations! You're just as cool as insourced.
  
• You are an imaginary friend. Congratulations! Your name is not always derogatory!
  
• You are an alter. Congratulations! Same as above.
  
• You are an otherkin/fairy princess/god of war. Congratulations! You are just as real and legit as anyone else in this insane asylum. (Sighing in relief is okay.)
  
• You are human and average. Congratulations! Don't take out your inferiority complex on the otherkin/fairy princesses/gods of war; they have feelings too.
  
• You are a combat guru who's defeated a million Nazis in the battle of Gallipoli. Congratulations! This does not make you the best fighter in the comm. In fact, I'd like to introduce you to this guy who soulbonded Galactus. Make fun of his goofy hat. Go on, do it.
  
• You are pro-integration. Congratulations! You have a right to this belief; do not force it on others.
  
• You are anti-integration. Congratulations! You have a right to this belief; do not force it on others.
  
• You have two planets each with a population of over a billion in your head. Congratulations! This doesn't make you cooler than the ones with low inner populations.
  
• You are sharing your head with one person. Congratulations! This doesn't make you cooler than the gateway systems.
  
• You get new members all the time. Congratulations! This doesn't make you crazy or cool.
  
• You haven't gotten any new members in years; you might even be on your own for the moment. Congratulations! This doesn't make you sane or not cool anymore.
  

Remember, this is not a contest to see who is the most "real," "sane," or "kickass." By mainstream opinion, you are now mentally ill. You are very lucky to have a group of people who will accept you; you are in no condition to snark at them.

We hope you have a nice time with us!

--The Committee of Soulbonders, Multiples, Plurals, Medians, and Mental Real Estate Agents